
EVIL EYE
What is a curse? Cursing is profanity, usually uttered when something has upset us and we express our dissatisfaction verbally. When someone drives recklessly around us we often spontaneously express our displeasure with an epitaph no one will hear. We all have uttered a curse when something unpleasant surprises us.
The curse also has supernatural significance. The ability to literally bless or curse someone is a cornerstone of occult practice. The curse has a huge role in legend and folklore. The belief in curses also had tragic consequences in real life. There was a time when human beings were burned at the stake because the population believed they could be smitten by a curse. People explained away their misfortune by placing blame on a scapegoat…that person over there. Witch! Misfortune could not possibly be the result of random chance; there must be a cause, a source for their affliction. The idea that life was arbitrary was disconcerting. It was more comforting to believe a witch’s curse was responsible for a tragedy; it gave a sense of order to our lives where none really existed.
Humanity is far better off that the belief in curses has faded away. It was a truly destructive belief driven by ignorance and fear. Today the curse is considered to be only superstition.
However, there still exists a reality behind the supernatural curse. Here is a true story. She would never consider this to be a curse. She does not believe in such things. I interpret it differently.
I know a woman who was betrayed by her business partner a number of years ago. Her relationship with this business partner was informal but they worked together towards the same goal. She gave her partner her trust, sharing with the partner her knowledge, expertise and contacts. This partner eventually took advantage of her trust. When this partner knew everything she needed to know from her, the partner discarded her. The partner locked her out of the business which the partner legally owned. She felt a profound sense of personal betrayal. All her efforts were stolen from her. To say she was upset would be an understatement. She was livid, outraged, but the circumstances left her no recourse.
Deeply disillusioned and upset, she knew she had to move on from this experience. Yet, she held a grudge, a very deep and enduring grudge. Everyday she visualized that this person who betrayed her would slip outside their office and fall on her back…tumbling backwards with a terrible collapse. It occupied her mind. Everyday for months she visualized the same thing happening over and over, seeing this person drop on her back. In her mind’s eye it was as if she were personally witnessing it herself.
As the months went by she began to loose her preoccupation with what transpired. She moved on with her life. Around six months afterwards she met a former business acquaintance of both of them. The business acquaintance asked her if she heard what happened to her former colleague. She said no. He said two months after the partner and she parted company, this partner slipped on some gravel outside the entrance to the office and fell on her back. The partner broke her back. The partner ended up in the hospital for months in a body cast.
This event happened exactly as she visualized. She was shaken by this news. She did not know exactly what to make of it. She did not believe in God or the supernatural. It eventually led her towards a different viewpoint concerning spirituality. It inspired her to look at life in a different light. After this event she became convinced that there was more to life then we imagine, and she sought to find out what it was. It is ironic that this “curse” actually became a positive life-changing event for her. It opened her eyes.
What is a true curse? Examining the event she experienced, what she unknowingly practiced was another ancient practice. The Evil Eye. She had no conscious intent on cursing her former partner. But she wished on her partner a full measure of misfortune in a very intense, focused and personal way. She was exercising the technique of the evil eye without realizing it. The evil eye has as long a history. It was believed that the glare of the evil eye could cause all manner of illness and misfortune. Talismans were used to protect against the evil eye. The evil eye is an internalized curse. That is what makes the evil eye dangerous.
A verbal curse is satisfying and at the same time ineffective. After the act of verbalizing our displeasure, we feel much better and the bitterness goes away. We release our anger. That is the point of the verbal curse. We swear and go on with life.
The evil eye is a different story. The evil eye is inside our head. The evil eye dwells on our grievances. It is unspoken, unreleased visualized imagination and intent. This ties in with the Law of Attraction.
The law of attraction suggests that what we think, what we feel with conviction, feeling, and purpose will become reality. It is accepted that positive thoughts properly visualized will attract positive results in our lives. The law of attraction says the opposite is also true, that negative thoughts and feelings will bring negative consequences.
We can aim the law of attraction at others as well. Most people believe in the power of prayer. Outside of the religious aspect, to pray for someone involves the law of attraction. Prayers and blessings use the power of positive belief not for personal benefit, but for the benefit of others.
It is also possible to aim the power of negativity at another like a weapon. This is rarely practiced. It is the opposite of prayer. It is the curse, the evil eye. I think that is exactly what this betrayed lady unconsciously did. The law of attraction works regardless if we believe in it or not. Focused, intense harmful visualization really is the mind’s evil eye. Some people are more in touch with the law of attraction and can get serious results.
This is a cautionary story. Be careful with whom we mess around with. If we step on people on a regular basis, if we don’t care who we harm, one day we might run into someone who has the evil eye. Perhaps not every one of life’s misfortunes is random chance. I am sure the lady who had the broken back had no clue.













June 27th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
Great piece. I’m one of the many people who are very ‘lazy’ when it comes putting my mind into focus; but I do believe in the power of our thoughts. That the betrayed person’s focused thoughts a.k.a. unknowing curse came through doesn’t surprise me. I’d rather focus on the positive, though. Rather than wishing someone ill, I’d focus “seeing the error of their ways” vibes on them
June 27th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
I’ve seen bad things happen in dreams before they happened in reality but I never wished for them, even in passing. I refuse to indulge in curses except through fiction.
June 28th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Hi Lynne,
A curse is a dangerous thing all around. There is a commonly accepted belief in a curse’s blowback. It is said if a curse does not “stick”, it returns onto the person who cast it. I believe that. Also, if we dwell in negativity towards others, then that negative mindset necessarily will bring negative results in one’s own life. A cheery, positive, optimistic attitude towards all is the healthy one. However, there may be the rare instance when some clear injustice has been done, and a curse can be justified. Even then, it is a perilous enterprise and one must accept the risk of blowback.
June 28th, 2009 at 12:53 am
Hi Stephanie,
Who has the wisdom to judge other people? I sure don’t. That is the problem with a curse, even if we imagine it is entirely justified. Bitterness is a poison to the soul. There is an old saying, “Its not the snake bite that kills, but the venom.” That is a metaphor for how we react to a negative event. Still, I can imagine circumstances when a curse is justified, but only if we are willing to accept the awful cost to our karma.
June 28th, 2009 at 1:41 am
There is the cornerstone of magic at work here: strong will backed up with powerful emotion. Also the fact that when we forget about the spell, it is cast, and that is when it takes effect. That is why, when doing magic, you are told to walk away and don’t look back or think about it. Also “Thoughts are things.” in this case, the lady with the evil eye learned the power of Magical Will.
I have a friend in London who is very fat. This guy at her job seduced her and never called her again. Later she overheard him telling another guy that he had never had anyone like her her before and wanted o know what it was like to be with a fat woman. This lady is a very nice person, but very sensitive about her weight. This guy’s words cut her to the quick so that she dreamed of him falling down the stairs and breaking his leg. It happened.
June 28th, 2009 at 5:22 am
Arlene,
I think selfish people might be more thoughtful if they understood that hurting other people could result in their own misfortune. How often does this happen? I think more often then we realize. There is a dynamic involved with human relationships that includes the unseen world. Often people who have a habit of harming others end up with terrible misfortune. Unconscious curses might be more common then we imagine, if not understood.
May 24th, 2010 at 9:55 am
I believe i’ve been affected by the evil eye! since february this year i’ve had terrible misfortune! first i got very ill with tuberculosis and stayed in hospital for 10 days, i’ve been having trouble at work…an inspector came to observe me and gave me negative comments, then i had serious marital problems and was on the brink of divorce, and my kids got frquently ill! I was taken to hospital again 2 weeks ago with an infection in my stomach! I think i know the source of the problem which is my mother inlaw because she absolutely hates me and i can’t stand her either but i’m sick and tired of all this bad luck!! Is the cause of this bad luck the evil eye or am i just being supersticious???? pls help!!!
May 24th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
Hi Tijmij,
An evil eye can be unintentional but still cause havoc. If someone has intense ill will towards you, combined with an innate talent for focused malice, it could be the same as a curse. Perhaps your recent misfortunes are the result of the evil eye, perhaps not, but there is no harm in using some psychic self-defense. We cannot be passive. One method of defense is to visualize you surrounded by a glowing light that will repel all misfortune. In addition, you need to begin using the law of attraction and attract good events in your life. That is hard to do when everything around you is so negative, but that is the way to turn the tide. Visualize a better life, believe everything is going to be ok soon, and misfortune will pass. Good luck!
Dave